A side project or passion, and the time we dedicate to it, is a choice. It can be a hard choice to make when faced with obligations like a job that pays the bills, or taking care of family. But when it comes to educational obligations, we must remember that college or university is also a choice. Can we really attend university – knowing that it comes with very specific expectations of what it takes in order to succeed – and then complain that the other things we are passionate about should justify not being able to complete those tasks? A degree is not something we pay for and are entitled to receive. We all enroll in higher education knowing that to be successful, to get a degree and graduate, takes a certain level of competence. Missing classes, not studying, and not completing assignments because we are focusing on other passions is a decision that we are entitled to make – but not one that a school is required to accommodate.
Yes, school is a time to pursue meaningful learning both in and out of the classroom. However, it is also the biggest lesson one gets in time management, and learning how to prioritize. So you’re feeling stressed? Welcome to the real world, kid.